The other day I overheard a few friends talking about what Oprah gave her employees for Christmas… I haven’t ever really kept track of this so I thought it sounded really generous when they said that this year she gave everyone a $200 Starbucks gift card… then one of them pointed out that last year she gave everyone a car and I jokingly responded something like – whaaat, last year we got a car! totally joking… and everybody laughed – which was the point… right after I said that another person jumped in with “they should just be grateful they…